tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2502176161456143914.post5395803804298866792..comments2024-03-08T09:09:27.748-05:00Comments on Tara Tyler Talks: How to Transition and SurviveTara Tylerhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/07587802105993889515noreply@blogger.comBlogger21125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2502176161456143914.post-82652375060135675452020-02-06T22:41:48.620-05:002020-02-06T22:41:48.620-05:00♥♥Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2502176161456143914.post-70489619947143118332019-09-18T14:10:55.045-04:002019-09-18T14:10:55.045-04:00Like your list Tara. We all have to deal with chan...Like your list Tara. We all have to deal with change and those are good points to remember for surviving.<br />Stress is a killer!! I'm just in the process of taking stock so I can find more time to write. Something always gets in the way, usually family.<br />I get so distracted if somethings disturbs me mid flow. I end up leaving it till the next day and I might have only written a few hundred words. grams ramblingshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15627561019772248870noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2502176161456143914.post-57701819143645063002019-09-09T16:25:01.639-04:002019-09-09T16:25:01.639-04:00You are such an inspiration. (And you know I under...You are such an inspiration. (And you know I understand what you're going through.) 'Organize the mess' - yes. I have so many snippets of unfinished 'maybe' manuscripts, thoughts that could be manuscripts, and even visual images I've saved that just might end up in a story someday, on my laptop the poor thing barely works. I need to do this to refresh and clear away the clutter. Thank you for sharing all of this. <3 S.A. Larsenッhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06241633272588383935noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2502176161456143914.post-45664988341362375142019-09-07T15:06:41.870-04:002019-09-07T15:06:41.870-04:00Going through so many changes at once never fails ...Going through so many changes at once never fails to be overwhelming. Sorry to hear that's something you've had to face, lately! *hugs* Your list on how to tackle such struggles is great! (Trying not to overdo it is something I'm always having to remind myself, heh.) And how exciting about your anthology submission! Keeping my fingers crossed for you!Heather R. Holdenhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04309060285955963459noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2502176161456143914.post-3685508120841592482019-09-06T08:22:34.069-04:002019-09-06T08:22:34.069-04:00I'm sorry you've had such a difficult time...I'm sorry you've had such a difficult time but I'm so glad you didn't listen to the voice saying maybe it was time to give up! I admire how you have started again with such determination and I know you will make a great success of it. Hang in there my friend! :)Julie Flandershttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05003737491313673214noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2502176161456143914.post-87048925558672499842019-09-05T12:18:59.268-04:002019-09-05T12:18:59.268-04:00Hey Tara, I'm so sorry you're struggling. ...Hey Tara, I'm so sorry you're struggling. Life does have a way of throwing change ups and it's hard. Especially as you age and more things tend to pop up. Sounds like you have a healthy plan to deal with it. You got this!Gwen Gardnerhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13132836346305559246noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2502176161456143914.post-57034331961927483972019-09-05T10:28:55.974-04:002019-09-05T10:28:55.974-04:00I heard/read somewhere that the only thing constan...I heard/read somewhere that the only thing constant in our universe is change. I am so sorry you're going through many changes at once. Stress has to be high! Take a few minutes to sit, drink some wine (or fav beverage) and relax will surely help. Taking things one thing at a time is good advice to yourself. Hugs.Diane Burtonhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03754105332297068271noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2502176161456143914.post-1256282298292466772019-09-04T23:18:07.776-04:002019-09-04T23:18:07.776-04:00I think you made a great plan. Treat yourself as ...I think you made a great plan. Treat yourself as kindly as you would others... You earned it. I hope all works itself out soon. Juneta keyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08815758043024184034noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2502176161456143914.post-19444331872902922102019-09-04T21:05:46.407-04:002019-09-04T21:05:46.407-04:00You came up with a great plan of attack. That firs...You came up with a great plan of attack. That first on is gold: one thing at a time. I hope things get better soon.H. R. Sinclairhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06715450637785127208noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2502176161456143914.post-10466867481913047192019-09-04T16:47:34.258-04:002019-09-04T16:47:34.258-04:00One thing at a time is definitely great advice! I ...One thing at a time is definitely great advice! I probably tell myself that every day, whether it's about writing or work or life in general. Sarah Fosterhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09481750127533816819noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2502176161456143914.post-43537004303015750012019-09-04T13:40:38.459-04:002019-09-04T13:40:38.459-04:00I used to handle all my life changes, and there ha...I used to handle all my life changes, and there have been many, with staying busy with work. Now I find that I'm trying to work less and send more time with family and friends and relax. It helps. Hope you figure out what works for you.Natalie Aguirrehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03756087804171246660noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2502176161456143914.post-14980761653233232272019-09-04T13:04:55.287-04:002019-09-04T13:04:55.287-04:00Wow. That is a bunch of changes. You know where to...Wow. That is a bunch of changes. You know where to find me if you need me. Anytime. Hugs. Love you bunches!Elizabeth Seckmanhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00045076826326574984noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2502176161456143914.post-45814568836440672972019-09-04T12:51:02.002-04:002019-09-04T12:51:02.002-04:00Life likes to be annoying and dump a lot on your a...Life likes to be annoying and dump a lot on your at once. I'm sending good vibes your way.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2502176161456143914.post-18554477378053449652019-09-04T12:27:03.882-04:002019-09-04T12:27:03.882-04:00Excellent advice. I too am taking it slow and easy...Excellent advice. I too am taking it slow and easy from many weeks.Rachna Chhabriahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16900999965919504282noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2502176161456143914.post-53612035890902895802019-09-04T11:56:55.756-04:002019-09-04T11:56:55.756-04:00One thing...one step at a time...is an important b...One thing...one step at a time...is an important bit of advice to remember with anything we are struggling with. :)Chrys Feyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11955009490266358041noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2502176161456143914.post-16741402363397222132019-09-04T10:57:45.994-04:002019-09-04T10:57:45.994-04:00Yep. One thing at a time is a good motto. Otherwis...Yep. One thing at a time is a good motto. Otherwise, you go bonkers. Congrats on submitting to the anthology.cleemckenziehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15456109243453726483noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2502176161456143914.post-65771355966866820022019-09-04T10:15:00.199-04:002019-09-04T10:15:00.199-04:00Hi Tara - good luck ... but one step at a time usu...Hi Tara - good luck ... but one step at a time usually works, no point in being overwhelmed and not doing anything ... so quietly as she goes ... all the best - cheers HilaryHilary Melton-Butcherhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17596532480645510678noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2502176161456143914.post-63521987385900431132019-09-04T09:45:10.705-04:002019-09-04T09:45:10.705-04:00I am the stressed-out workaholic, so I'm not m...I am the stressed-out workaholic, so I'm not much for giving advice on how to deal with it. Other than accept chaos as the balance right now.L. Diane Wolfehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06425864276166334896noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2502176161456143914.post-19913890597724810272019-09-04T08:30:16.670-04:002019-09-04T08:30:16.670-04:00Try to be as gentle and kind with yourself as you ...Try to be as gentle and kind with yourself as you can. Beating yourself up isn't going to help anything. <br /><br />You already have a good attitude and lots of excellent tips in this post. You've got this. Hang in and hang on! :)Madeline Mora-Summontehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05529397293165046430noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2502176161456143914.post-43516390320426744162019-09-04T08:22:55.415-04:002019-09-04T08:22:55.415-04:00That's a lot to handle at once. But we can onl...That's a lot to handle at once. But we can only do so much and what doesn't get done will be all right. Just ask yourself - will it matter in a hundred years? If not, move on.Alex J. Cavanaughhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09770065693345181702noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2502176161456143914.post-44657313706434273572019-09-04T07:37:36.517-04:002019-09-04T07:37:36.517-04:00Some excellent advice. My life is in constant chan...Some excellent advice. My life is in constant change, I look after a disabled husband, and so far I manage to stay cheerful, not inflict my own tiredness upon him, and long may it last 🌹lostinimaginaryworlds.blogspot.comhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14765118845864442948noreply@blogger.com