Thankful for Sweet Surprises

Little things matter.

Big things, life changes, astounding news, accidents. All bring immediate reactions, usually as big as the event. But little things, big or small, also matter. One or two little annoyances are no big deal. Unfortunately, annoying little things usually line up and pile onto each other making a huge mass that can turn my mood sour as sure as one big bad event. It's commonly called, "one of those days."

Luckily, good little surprises can have the opposite effect. And just one sweet little thing can turn my day from terrible to terrific just like that. Does that make me a moody person? Yes. I admit it. I struggle with it all the time. Sometimes I wonder if that part of my brain has emotional amnesia. Guess I just need to keep at it. I'm also glad I easily forget the little annoyances once I get past them--going out to dinner with friends or playing with my dogs helps me get out of any funk!

So after a long, stressful week, I have some big awesome news! My first Florida event was FANTASTIC! Much better than I anticipated. I even sold out of Pop Travel! That means I won't be giving up on writing just yet, haha. And I'm looking forward to finding a spring event to try.

And here are a couple of fun little surprises I found at my school...

yes, that's a pineapple -- I didn't know that's how they grew either!

sand hill cranes -- mates for life & not afraid of people

Hope your November is Cool & Sunny

and full of little sweet surprises!

Happy Fall from Florida

Have Patience

Welcome to IWSG for October -- can't believe it's already spooky month! Boo-yah!

So I must apologize for being such a whiny baby lately. I really need to find more patience. I know it takes time to adjust to a new environment. I mean, it doesn't help that I didn't want to move. And I'm also a Scorpio... I really get sick of going to extremes and forgetting to be patient. I'm trying to remember that things will work out, even if not the way we think it should. Like, I'm happy to say, I have found a great job that I wasn't expecting. And though it's been a bit rocky at first, I have faith it's going to be awesome. I'm definitely not bored anymore!

Same is true for us as writers. I know many of you have more patience than I do. So keep the faith! Whether you're stuck in a block, waiting for a query response, or maybe floundering in edits (like me!) a positive result will soon jump out and surprise you. Don't be scared, it was meant to be.

Hope you're planning some scary fun this month!

Take Care!

Making the Most of It

What is the secret to happiness?

Welcome to this month's Insecure Writers Support Group!

It seems like most people think, If this happens, then I will be happy. Unfortunately, there's always another something that needs to happen. Does that mean happiness is unattainable?

I can't believe I've been living here in "paradise" for three months. I'm slowly getting acclimated to my new surroundings--and just like everywhere, some is good, some is awful. I compare living down here to Christmas Every Day syndrome. Vacation-mode all the time was turning my brain into a puddle of useless mush! I have a strong need to be productive. And with no purpose, I was deep down dwelling.

It's hard to get out there and get involved in new activities on your own. All the new is scary! And I've been dreading the whole application/interview process, remembering how hard it was before. No one wants to hire an experienced, ornery old lady (no sugar coating for me)

So, how can I be happy again?

Some may not agree with this, but I've been praying my heart out.

And thank the Lord, some positives descended to help me dig out of my depression hole. 

• I forced myself to go to a local game night and met some friendly folks. 
• My teaching certificate was approved! And I applied to not one, but two positions that fit my credentials.
• And I've made plans to travel to visit family and do a couple of book events. 
• I've even done some writing and yoga!

My impatient heart needed to slow down and enjoy some simple pleasures before diving back into a hectic job. Now, I have a lot to look forward to, and that makes me happy!

The Key to Happiness:

No matter how low you feel, there's a surprise blessing right around the corner.

I've known this all my life, but when I'm sad, it's easy to forget. It's hard to get through the tough times, but the rainbows have been out in full force trying to tell me good days are coming.

Thanks for bearing with me. You all are a big part of helping me get through it all. And I hope this happy ending brings you some positive vibes!

I hope summer was good to you!

I'm ready for Fall.